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You can train yourself

Then read your lists to each other. Plus, when you show flexibility, your ex is more likely to be flexible with you.

Work with the other parent to set consistent rules. You can train yourself to not overreact to your ex, and over time you can become numb to the buttons they try to push. Making co-parenting work The key to successful co-parenting is to separate the personal relationship with your ex from the co-parenting relationship. It can be extremely difficult to get past the painful history you may have with your ex and overcome built-up resentments.

Personal and intimate exchange in a marriage is necessary to the health of your relationship. The cost of maintaining two separate households can strain your attempts to be effective co-parents. Happy couples believe in the importance of helping each other realize their dreams.

In the bigger one, make a list of what you can compromise on. Cooperating and communicating without blow-ups or bickering makes decision-making far easier on everybody. They make decisions together and search out common ground.

In one of my last custody cases, I was representing a Ph. Gottman says that fondness and admiration are two of the most important elements in a satisfying and long-term relationship. It all begins with your mindset. He happened to be a policeman, and she was arrested and charged with conspiracy.

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Share Your Feelings The give and take that occurs within a relationship requires constant balance. They must also be willing to terminate the affair, promise to remain faithful in the future, and spend whatever time necessary recreating trust in the marriage. The bad behavior could be coming from a place of pain, anger, sadness, and confusion over your divorce.

Deal with Infidelity Although couples can recover from an instance of infidelity, it is not easy. Hire the best lawyer and forensic accountant you can afford and recommend that your spouse do the same. Determine Your Options Call or use the form, below. This simple technique can jump-start positive communications between you.